In her highly anticipated memoir, Cher: The Memoir, Part One, out November 19, Cher pulls back the curtain on her legendary life and career, sharing personal anecdotes about her journey to stardom, her relationships, and her encounters with some of the most iconic figures in entertainment. Among these tales is a vivid recollection of her first meeting with country music legend Dolly Parton—a moment that began with a touch of skepticism and a side eye before blossoming into a genuine and lasting friendship.

An Unlikely Introduction

The entertainment worlds of Cher and Dolly Parton were vastly different when they first crossed paths. Cher was already an established pop icon, known for her glamorous style, deep contralto voice, and boundary-pushing performances. Dolly, meanwhile, was cementing her status as a country music superstar, with her Southern charm and unmistakable soprano delivering hits like “Jolene” and “I Will Always Love You.”

In Cher: The Memoir, Part One, Cher describes how their first meeting occurred at a Hollywood event in the late 1970s. At the time, Cher admits, she didn’t quite know what to make of Dolly’s larger-than-life persona.

“When I first saw Dolly, I didn’t know whether to laugh, cry, or ask her where she got her outfit,” Cher writes. “She was this whirlwind of big hair, sequins, and an accent so thick I could barely understand her. I wasn’t sure if she was for real—or if I was being pranked.”

Cher’s initial reaction to Dolly was one of bemused skepticism. She recalls giving the country star what she now laughingly calls her signature “side eye,” unsure how to approach someone who seemed so unapologetically herself.

Breaking the Ice

Despite her doubts, Cher was intrigued by Dolly’s confidence and authenticity. During their first conversation, Cher says she quickly realized there was far more to Dolly than the glitter and glamour.

“Dolly’s charm is disarming,” Cher recalls. “You can’t help but smile when she talks. She’s funny, smart, and sharp as a tack. That night, she made me laugh so hard my stomach hurt.”

The two women discovered common ground in their shared experiences as female performers navigating a male-dominated industry. Cher notes how Dolly’s unapologetic embrace of her identity inspired her, even in those early moments.

“Dolly didn’t care what anyone thought of her. She owned who she was, flaws and all. That kind of confidence is rare—and it’s contagious.”

From Skepticism to Sisterhood

What began as a cautious introduction quickly evolved into a genuine bond. Cher writes about how she and Dolly found themselves gravitating toward each other at subsequent industry events, often exchanging stories about their struggles and triumphs.

“We both knew what it was like to be underestimated, judged, and criticized—whether it was for our looks, our music, or our choices. That gave us an instant connection.”

Cher credits Dolly with teaching her the importance of staying true to herself, even in the face of criticism. She recalls one particularly memorable piece of advice from Dolly: “Honey, if you’re not being talked about, you’re not doing anything worth talking about.”

That mantra resonated with Cher, who has spent her career defying expectations and challenging norms. It also cemented her admiration for Dolly as not just an entertainer but a trailblazer and role model.

A Friendship That Stands the Test of Time

Over the years, Cher and Dolly have remained close friends, supporting each other through personal and professional milestones. From attending award shows together to sharing the stage at benefit concerts, the two icons have celebrated each other’s successes while cheering each other on from the sidelines.

In her memoir, Cher shares a particularly heartwarming story about Dolly’s unwavering support during one of her most challenging moments. After her split from Sonny Bono, Cher recalls how Dolly reached out to offer words of encouragement.

“She told me, ‘You’re stronger than you think, and you’ll get through this. And if you ever need a friend, I’m just a phone call away.’ That meant the world to me.”

Dolly’s kindness and empathy, Cher writes, are among the many reasons their friendship has endured for decades. Despite their differing styles and personas, the two women have always found strength in their shared resilience and mutual respect.

Cher’s Take on Dolly’s Legacy

In Cher: The Memoir, Part One, Cher doesn’t hold back in praising Dolly’s impact on music, culture, and philanthropy. She calls Dolly a “national treasure” whose contributions extend far beyond her chart-topping hits.

“Dolly isn’t just a great artist—she’s a great human being. She’s used her success to make a difference in the world, whether it’s through her literacy programs or her disaster relief efforts. She’s proof that you can be successful and still have a heart.”

Cher also reflects on how Dolly’s authenticity and unapologetic individuality have influenced countless artists, herself included.

“Dolly taught me that it’s okay to be different. In fact, it’s better to be different. She showed the world that you don’t have to fit into a box to be loved or successful. You just have to be yourself.”

A Lesson in Friendship

Cher’s recounting of her first impression of Dolly Parton is not just an entertaining anecdote—it’s a testament to the power of friendship and the importance of embracing authenticity. What began as a moment of uncertainty and “side eye” turned into a bond that has withstood the test of time.

As Cher writes in her memoir, Dolly is more than just a friend—she’s a kindred spirit.

“Dolly is one of those people who makes the world a better place just by being in it. I’m lucky to know her, and even luckier to call her my friend.”

Looking Ahead

With Cher: The Memoir, Part One, fans are treated to an intimate glimpse into the life of one of music’s most enduring icons. Cher’s story is one of reinvention, resilience, and relationships that have shaped her along the way—including her unforgettable friendship with Dolly Parton.

As Cher’s memoir hits shelves, readers can look forward to more insights into her remarkable journey, filled with humor, heart, and the kind of candid storytelling that has defined her career. And through it all, one thing is clear: Cher and Dolly’s bond is as iconic as the women themselves.

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